Monday 23 April 2007

Infidelity - part 3


Another couple that I know where infidelity was a major part on their married life (over 25 years) eventually divorced. During the marriage the husband had a number of affairs and often suffered from migranes when he was with his wife. A few years into their marriage he has even planning to go to Australia with his mistress but his mother found out and put a stop to his plans. The couple then threw a 25th anniversary party and invited many family members and friends. Shortly afterwards the husband left his wife and she did not know whether he would return. I believe he did the Wedding Anniversary party in order to see everyone from his old life for the last time and then left to start a new life. The couple divorced a few years later and he has since remarried. The ex-wife was very hurt she still cares for the ex-husband and possibly even more than that. The two children now in their thirties merely tolerate the father. Although the ex-wife still cares for the ex-husband she has said that perhaps it would have been better if their marriage had ended after the discovery of the Australian affair and that way she would have been able to start a new life herself. The moral of this story is that it is often because of the involvement of other people such as the children and in-laws, and also because of strong feelings that couples eventually reconcile after infidelity but there is also always the possibility of an extra-marital affair occuring again.








And whatever you do don't sleep with your wife's sister:-




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